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For those men who have or had a girlfriend or wife that did escorting or casual prostitution; did they ever acknowledge that they are prostitutes?
The reason for my question is because I had 2 episodes, an ex girlfriend and my previous wife who did escort and casual prostitution but they never acknowledged that they are prostitutes.
It was hard for them to understand that once an even one timer prostitute, always a prostitute. Both them used to say they did it for fun and pleasure, not for the need of surviving…they got even angry to be named a prostitute, even during sex, but I am sure their clients called them this way and certainly it was not a big issue.
I would like to hear your experiences, thanks.

My wife has said that all sex between a man and a woman was transactional in some sense. The woman may enjoy it for its own sake but she needs to get something out of it whether that be love, companionship or money or a combination of all of the above.

LongTermHubby wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 3:08 am

My wife has said that all sex between a man and a woman was transactional in some sense. The woman may enjoy it for its own sake but she needs to get something out of it whether that be love, companionship or money or a combination of all of the above.

Indeed very wise words. Thinking like this one better understands the point when a girl doesn’t see herself a prostitute, an escort or a slut, the barrier that splits these are very tin and sensitive and at the end, in one way or another any girl/woman can play different roles at the same time. Morality or immorality it is in the eyes of the beholder and they always goes together. It is easy for one to point fingers, but are there any point in doing this? Only a stupid would do so.

My wife gets turned on when a man pays for her. There is no shame in being a whore for her. She is very good at it and has many regulars. It feeds her need for male attention.

VandR4fun wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 10:34 am

My wife gets turned on when a man pays for her. There is no shame in being a whore for her. She is very good at it and has many regulars. It feeds her need for male attention.

VR4F - Would you be able to tell us how this all came to be?

VandR4fun wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 10:34 am

My wife gets turned on when a man pays for her. There is no shame in being a whore for her. She is very good at it and has many regulars. It feeds her need for male attention.

I think there are many girls out there specially when sexy dressed that are turned on when approached by men asking them how much do they charge per hour. So that was the case with my past girlfriend; for some reason she felt horny to see how indecent it could be for a unknown man to come to her and ask these things as she was a whore. And at the time she wasn’t yet, not for monetary purposes.

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 4:31 pm

VandR4fun wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 10:34 am

My wife gets turned on when a man pays for her. There is no shame in being a whore for her. She is very good at it and has many regulars. It feeds her need for male attention.

VR4F - Would you be able to tell us how this all came to be?

Wife was an escort in her early 20s to support her son from teenage pregnancy.
Did it for several years and from what I can tell had a great time.



About 8yrs ago we were swinging and exploring HW lifestyle.Wife setup a sugardaddy acct and met a couple guys. We met an escort\ unicorn on site and had a 3some.
I then met escort alone and she told me about a local board that was not sugar daddy but full on Pros.Wife setup an acct and turned a few tricks and soon she was one of top girls on site.8 yrs later she's very popular and still has fun doing it. She's one of the best I've ever seen. Very good at making a guy comfortable. She's also good at the business aspect as well. She has many regulars an word of mouth brings in replacements when she gets slow.

VandR4fun wrote: ↑

Thu Jun 22, 2023 3:17 pm

Long Lurker 34 wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 4:31 pm

VandR4fun wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 10:34 am

My wife gets turned on when a man pays for her. There is no shame in being a whore for her. She is very good at it and has many regulars. It feeds her need for male attention.

VR4F - Would you be able to tell us how this all came to be?

Wife was an escort in her early 20s to support her son from teenage pregnancy.
Did it for several years and from what I can tell had a great time.



About 8yrs ago we were swinging and exploring HW lifestyle.Wife setup a sugardaddy acct and met a couple guys. We met an escort\ unicorn on site and had a 3some.
I then met escort alone and she told me about a local board that was not sugar daddy but full on Pros.Wife setup an acct and turned a few tricks and soon she was one of top girls on site.8 yrs later she's very popular and still has fun doing it. She's one of the best I've ever seen. Very good at making a guy comfortable. She's also good at the business aspect as well. She has many regulars an word of mouth brings in replacements when she gets slow.

Interesting that your wife is an escort she is keen in her finances as well, my ex girlfriend got into escorting by fun, she was on her 20’s, was a gorgeous pale skin and beautiful girl, despite’s she had lots of hormones and fantasies to fulfill. Becoming a whore was a surreal fantasy and gave her easy money, so easy that she got addicted to it given that on this age she didn’t have ANY problem in finding sex freaks willing to use her body to satisfy their needs (and hers as well because she never hide that it was common for her to reach orgasms while a stranger man was fucking her). She got a lot of money but as easy comes, easy goes; she invested of course in expensive lingeries, travels, spas, sexy clothes in order to bring in more money and it worked well that way. We still have contact today, but I wouldn’t say she saved much of what she earned; she lives in a simple house and have a simple car, despite of being a single mother. I don’t think she announces in websites anymore but I know she is a slut still. As I normally say, this is a one way road with no return and this is also exciting,

Mine first did it because it felt 'naughty' - went against everything she had been brought up to do. But later I think she also 'dated' other men because it turned me on and enhanced our lovemaking. She had a well paid position but, had she ever been short of money, I think she wouldn't have thought twice about increasing her escort activities.

My wife worked in a sex massage parlour for a few months in Thailand and was also a part time bar girl. She calls herself a hooker when she was in the sex massage parlour but the bar girl time was just for fun and money.
She never came when she was working and tells me she had to make herself cum when she got home as she was always so horny after the day of sex. Most customers in one day was seven.

NWCouple1963 wrote: ↑

Sat Jun 24, 2023 12:43 am

My wife worked in a sex massage parlour for a few months in Thailand and was also a part time bar girl. She calls herself a hooker when she was in the sex massage parlour but the bar girl time was just for fun and money.
She never came when she was working and tells me she had to make herself cum when she got home as she was always so horny after the day of sex. Most customers in one day was seven.

Amazing…but did she never explained to you why she never came if she enjoyed to have sex with her customers? Is she originally from Thailand if I may ask, or was she from western countries? The reason for my question is that I would guess being a western girl working as a hooker in Thailand would attract most of the men? Or perhaps she didn’t come because of other reason?

She is from Thailand and didn’t cum when we had sex until she fully trusted I was serious about being with her. Now she can cum in twenty seconds!!

So to answer your question, the sex has to mean something to her to cum but it still excites her.

NWCouple1963 wrote: ↑

Sat Jun 24, 2023 9:04 am

So to answer your question, the sex has to mean something to her to cum but it still excites her.

You answered quite right on the first time, thank you. My point is to understand why some girls, even by knowing they are whores, they simply don’t understand it or deny that. It seems sometimes that they see a who’re as a dirty, old lady from the old western movies, and this is just not the truth.

I understand what you are saying but I think some things in her past inhibit her and she can only let herself go with a man she trusts or on her own.

My wife has to have some sort of connection with a guy, cannot be a 1 night stand. Usually doesn't require to be a relationship, but needs to "like" him.

That being said, she expects the guy once they start a relationship to be generous to her, not actually paying her for "service", but spending $$ on her. Like accompanying her guy to a casino, expects to be given a handful of cash to play with, taken to dinner at a very nice restaurant, maybe bought a gift, especially if he is a winner. Treat her "special" and she will more than reciprocate. Not into meeting at a bar for a few drinks. having sex, then saying "good night".

As mentioned above, has to get something for her out of it. Does not consider herself a prostitute, who is actually paid, but just a "slut" who receives some benefts from her guy's generosity, the more the better. It is really not the value. but the willingness of him spending $$ on her. The phycological rush for her is the feeling of being naughty, which is given from the trill by dating other men and having sex outside of her marriage.

When an opportunity allows, she enjoys revealing in conversation with strangers that she is married, but out for the night with her boyfriend.

My wife was a working girl when I met her. I just didn’t know it right away. She told me she was a bar tender. But she always seemed to have a lot of money. LOL I eventually found out and while she was sympathetic to my angst she didn’t quit until she was ready. (That was after she had saved enough for her college education) Later we went to school together and she started fucking other guys just because she wanted to. Again she was sympathetic to my angst but she didn’t quit. It’s now been 47 years and she is still at it. We are currently in the French Alps waiting for her latest interest to join us.

I've never been married, but I've done the escort and sugarbabe thing for years.....my take on it (from the escorts/sugarbabes that I have known) is that once a woman has done that, and she's moved on, she usually doesn't want to be reminded of it, and won't bring it up in conversation.

Whether or not she was doing it to pay bills, or just wanted extra spending money, she viewed it as something she needed to do at the time, and nothing more than that.

Kinda like the strippers that I have known. I've known women (or known of women) who stripped their way through college; (or escorted their way through college) and once they graduated, they left that part of their life behind. When you ask them about student loans and stuff, they are like "Well, I got scholarships/financial aid that pretty much covered everything"....LOL....but hey, if it worked for them, it worked for them.

Which is understandable when you think about it. I mean, we are all pretty open-minded here. But the vast majority of the public out there still takes (at least, publicly) a dim view of escorting, stripping, or whatever. If a woman has been able to escape college with little or no student debt, I applaud that, and at the same time, understand if she's not going to want to disclose how she got through college.

LongTermHubby wrote: ↑

Wed Jun 21, 2023 3:08 am

My wife has said that all sex between a man and a woman was transactional in some sense. The woman may enjoy it for its own sake but she needs to get something out of it whether that be love, companionship or money or a combination of all of the above.

your wife is a wise person.

My wife worked as a full time escort for over 10 years. Started as hotwifing but she loved the attention and income. We kept it fairly quiet but she had sex with a crap ton of guys so we would run into them on occasion. Had one guy walk up to her with me right there and say 'You're the whore I nutted in, what was your name again?'. I wanted to punch him but it was also hot af. So yes, my wife identifies as being a prostitute or whore.

Hotwife2020 wrote: ↑

Tue Oct 03, 2023 4:38 am

My wife worked as a full time escort for over 10 years. Started as hotwifing but she loved the attention and income. We kept it fairly quiet but she had sex with a crap ton of guys so we would run into them on occasion. Had one guy walk up to her with me right there and say 'You're the whore I nutted in, what was your name again?'. I wanted to punch him but it was also hot af. So yes, my wife identifies as being a prostitute or whore.

That sounds insanely hot! Would love to hear more about that.

my wife let her landlord fuck her once a week when she was studying and did not want to work to pay the rent. She was 18 when she went to College and stayed in his apartment for 6 years. He was in his 60s. He came on Fridays or Saturdays and he fucked her really hard. She had 45 kg at that time. I was dating her when she was 20 not realizing what was going on for some months. Now she says that she was not prostitute because she did not take any money...

We never considered it prostitution, but at where I work no one knows my wife. It started many years ago when a young coworker was going to have a stag party and he was asking around for ideas, I mentioned having some girls work the part doing favors for the guys there. He didn't have any idea on how to set something like that up. I told him to have the friend setting up the party to give me a call. His friend called, after a long conversation he could only think of one girl to ask to do such a thing. I told him to ask if she would and I would find two more.

I told my wife Laurie about the party and my idea about having her be one of the girls, she jumped at the idea. Laurie also said that she would talk to Kari about it too. Kari is the hot-wife from down the street. The night of the party I brought both Kari and Laurie to the party, I was put in charge of all three girls for the night. I told the guys at the party that the girls were available for favors and to come to me to be scheduled. Over he evening many of the guys asked for sex. a few asked for blow jobs and hand jobs. I had set prices with the girls $30 for hand job, $60 for blow job, and $100 for a fuck. At the end of the night I took Kari and Laurie home, Kari earned $590 and my wife Laurie made over $700.

Kelly escorted for several months during the Great Recession. She doesn't like any reference to prostitution and even now when we talked about it she is uncomfortable with the term escort and describes what she did as a 'courtesan'.

When we first spoke about it she didn't want to see guys and the regular routine. So we posted an ad on Craigslist offering to meet with single women and couples with the focus on the woman. Interested people had to email and some even sent photos. I had the job of deciding who Kelly would call to validate and arrange the date.

We were in New York City at the time - hence the need for rent money in the recession! - but we were still surprised by the response. Several women in their 40's and 50's both business women and stay at home moms who had dabbled with girls in college and wanted the experience without their husband. The majority were MF couples living out (usually his) a fantasy of her with another girl. Kelly wouldn't have sex with the guy only oral but she actually found that the vast majority of girls in this situation didn't want Kelly with their boyfriend/husband at all which totally suited Kelly! She also saw a married lesbian couple a few times who took her to some parties as their 'third'. Her last couple saw her once a week and after the first few times the husband stayed downstairs while the wife and Kelly played upstairs. This couple saw her exclusively after Kelly decided to stop escorting.

Some couples wanted pictures to remember so Kelly had the husband shoot with a digital camera we owned. We then edited the shots and sent them pictures to remember. That was great for me as I got to see Kelly with all these other women. I didn't get to watch her with men by then!

We counted up before I wrote this post and she thinks it was jsut under 50 women in the 8 or so months and about 10-15 guys that she gave oral to and 1 guy who 'convinced' her to see him without his wife after the first date with her.

Fun times and would love to re-live but I get a very firm NO from Kelly whenever I broach the idea.....

I had been her cuck husband for several years, without knowing it, until she chose to tell me by showing me, we were both still in our 20s. She admitted she liked having lovers but now wanted me involved in some way so I accepted my role as a cuck husband.

A few years later i arranged to meet a chap one evening for a drink she immediately liked him, kissed and semi played in our car, leaving with another date when we would all meet up again, or as we knew then she would fuck him, some in front of me, my choice, hotel room booked.

She wanted me involved and he knew it, not sexually but to watch as i wished, unfortunately on the night he simply could not perform in my presence, he said i was too intimidating at 6ft 4 and didn’t look the type that would freely hand his fit and pretty wife to another man and he had never fucked a women in front of her husband and was uneasy about it.

So it was my choice, we both leave, or i leave them together for a few hours, i chose to leave them alone and found it so very kinky leaving her with him, laid on the bed wearing just her knickers, then minutes later got a text from her, cuck pick me up at 7am! WTF.

Days later he contacted me later wishing to see her again, i was cool on the idea, but then he asked if he could pay ME for her time.....that set my perverted mind thinking, so basically i would be selling my wife for money...........

He offered me £400 for one evening.

This turned me on immensely and the kink grew on me, this was not about the money but the kink.

She was happy to see him again but not keen on the money aspect and said she would have nothing to do with this element, so i agreed and dropped her off in a hotel car park, took the cash in front of her then went home got changed and went to work on nights. The ultimate kink for a cuck husband. Buzzing all night, like a naughty boy, the people i worked with knew her as she worked for the same organisation where she was so vanilla... now what would they think!!!!

I sold her again to him but in truth she was getting fed up listening to him laid in bed mid fuck talking about his ex who binned him.

Then there was this, it was not really the sort of thing we should be doing as a professional couple, both in public facing and quite high profile well paid jobs, yes we both knew we would be dismissed immediately, that would mean the loss of everything including our house, income and pensions.

Yet my mind was already thinking up my next perversion and i had found the idea site.............. to sell her my wife and best friend as an escort..........

This does bring me back onto the topic of this thread........

The question was would she dare..........